Weekly Message
Tom Seymour
December 1, 2013
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Sunday
Hardened Hearts
2 Corinthians: 12
Technology offers us many wonders and blessings. The
advancement of modern technology has ushered us into a new age of information.
As soon as anything happens, anywhere on earth, people around the world learn
of it. Television and the worldwide net both broadcast real-time images of both
the happy and the tragic.
This steady diet of instant information has had a profound
effect upon many of us in that it serves to harden our heats to the suffering
of others. It has become impossible to escape from images of death, war,
suffering, cruelty and great disasters. This ongoing bombardment has deadened
our senses to the point that we now pay more attention to rising interest rates
or the price of dump stickers than to news of thousands of people perishing in
a tsunami or earthquake half a world away.
We sit down to our supper table with the television on. As we
eat, we see stomach-churning pictures of starving children in Africa ,
weeping, with swollen bellies and flies crawling around on their lips. If we
are bothered at all by this, we switch the channel and continue eating.
After all, there are so many. The suffering is too great, too
widespread for any one person to have the slightest effect upon it. If we give
money to every charity that solicits us, we would soon go broke. So the easiest
way is to ignore the call. Tune it out. Turn our backs. That’s easy for us because
as I said earlier, our hearts have become hardened to the suffering of others.
But this hardening of heart only extends to a certain degree.
Because of the daily onslaught of images of suffering and
pain, our brain must react in a certain way so that we can continue to function
in a normal manner. Were it not for our ability to tune out graphic images seen
on a screen, we would probably live in a continual state of mourning and our
lives would become worthless and we would achieve nothing.
So what are we to do? First, and perhaps the most difficult,
is to recognize this situation and forgive ourselves for being callous of
heart. And then, find some charity, or some person, or some group and do what
we can for them.
None of us by ourselves can win the war against evil and
suffering, but any one of us can make a difference in someone else’s life. How
to go about this may not be clear at first. I suggest praying for an answer.
That’s always the best first step in any important endeavor. Do that and the
answer will come.
The question of how much to give comes next. Paul said in 2
Corinthians: 12, “For if the eagerness is
there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has – not according to what
one does not have.”
In the end, you will find that giving begets giving and doing
good creates a will to do more good.
Remember, our hearts can only handle so much sorrow and
grief. That’s why we have become inured to the violent and dangerous world of
today. But know this. The same person who turns the dial on a television so as
not to have to see disfigured children would not turn his back on an actual,
real-life child if that child were present physically. We must endeavor to come
to grips with this dichotomy.
It helps to know that God loves us all and that he knows us
in our heart of hearts, not the heart that has short-circuited because of the
onslaught from the news media, but the real heart, the heart that steers the
very soul.
Pray always, in all things. God hears.